Hi, today you will discover 15 quotes about not caring what others think about which will help you live freely and authentically.
So many times, our decisions are heavily influenced by what others may think of us which could be co-workers, friend, family members and the society.
But this can present huge obstacles in our lives and prevent us from living lives were meant to live or which are true to ourselves all because of the fear of what other people may think of us.
In order to live authentically and truthfully, you need to stop caring what others may think of you and live life on your own terms.
Failure to do so, will in due course in life lead to missed opportunities, wasted potential and eventually regret you will never recover from both now and beyond.
With that in mind, let’s discuss 15 quotes about not caring what others think of you which will help you become free from the people pleaser trap which has imprisoned so many people out there from living lives true to themselves.
15 Quotes About Not Caring What People Think
1. People simply don’t care about you and are indifferent to your needs or life problems as they are simply too busy and preoccupied with their own life issues to even think of you for a split second. Trialsandtests.
Indeed, people are simply too busy & buried in their own issues and needs to be bothered or concerned about your problems.
Hence, there is no point of your worrying or caring what others may think about you which is simply a waste of time on your part.
Yes, it may appear that people think of you on paper when the answer couldn’t be further from the truth. Live your life and do what’s best for you and let all the other baggage fade away and disappear into the vast expanses of the universe never to be remembered again.
2. Care about people’s approval and you will always be their prisoner. Lao Tzu.
If you are a person who is always obsessed with what others think about you, you will always be their prisoner for the rest of your life until you die.
Unless you are free yourself from the chains and shackles of caring and needing the approval of others, you will never be free or do anything to be proud of with your life.
Always remember, you don’t need anyone’s approval to live the life you were divinely meant to live even before you were born.
Stop caring about other people’s approval or validations you don’t even need anyway which just keeps you from growing and progressing in life.
3. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Dr. Seuss
Embrace your uniqueness at all times and don’t be afraid to say or do what you know is right deep down your heart even when one is in agreement with you.
After all, no one cares about your dreams or your life goals. So, screw what other people think of you and go out there and do what your convictions are telling you.
By the way, people don’t even think about you as you might want to believe. Just like you, people are self-absorbed in their own issues.
Therefore, worrying about what others will think about you who don’t even care about you at all is pointless and just a waste of your precious time.
Don’t ever live a fake existence to please others or society which will just eventually lead to regret in due course later in life and beyond when all is said and done with your earthly life.
4. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I. If by chance we find each other, it’s beautiful. If not, it can’t be helped. Fritz Perls.
This is one of my favorite thought provocation quotes on not caring about what others think about you which encourages us not to live up to other people’s expectations of us.
Just as the author wonderfully puts it, you are not obliged to live up to anyone’s expectations and choose to live the life which is true to yourself even if people around you don’t agree with it.
You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone for the life choices you are making as long as what you are doing isn’t evil or sinful.
Always be yourself and never apologize for that even if that means disappointing your friends or the ones closest to you.
Remember, life is simply too short to live up to other people’s expectations which won’t mean anything anyway when you die.
All that will matter when all is said and done with your earthy life is how you lived and whether you accomplished what you were meant to do with the little time you had on earth.
5. If you have over preoccupation with the perception and trying to please people’s expectations, then you can go mad. Benedict Cumberbatch.
Very true indeed as trying to live up to other people’s expectations of which you can’t eventually drive you crazy as everyone is telling you something different.
Trying to live up to everyone’s expectations of you is indeed a fool’s errand as you can’t please everyone in life.
So many people are not living lives true to themselves all because they are pressured to live up these black and white expectations others have imposed on them.
Unfortunately for such people they will never be truly happy and understand what it means to truly live unless they let go of trying to live up other people’s expectations.
You are just depriving yourself of your unique gifts and abilities bestowed on you from above by trying to please the expectations of others which you can’t by the way.
If you want to do something you will be proud of with your life before you die, stop trying to please other people’s expectations.
6. Trying to live up to other people’s expectations or that of society is a surefire way to a sorrowful regretful existence later in this life and in the world to come. Trialsandtests.
Living according to the expectations of others is a one-way ticket to a regretful existence later in life and in the world to come when all is said and done.
In fact, studies have shown the top 5 biggest regrets most people have with little time left is living in accordance with other people’s expectations instead of a life which was true to themselves.
Sadly for these people, it’s too late to make amends or reverse the arms of time but this doesn’t have to be you as you are reading this right now.
Don’t make this tragic mistake most people are making of trying to live the life which is expected of them.
Remember, you came alone in this world and you will die alone with no escort. So, if you have been living up to other people’s expectations up to this point.
You need to stop right now before it’s too late to make amends. Otherwise, you will deeply regret for all eternity in the life to come if you don’t do so.
7. Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it’s time to pause and reflect. Mark Twain.
If you find yourself on the side of the crowd, you need to stop and question yourself whether what you are doing is the right thing or just doing it for the sake of pleasing the crowd.
Please note dear reader that the crowd going right isn’t an indicator that the going in the right direction but often to stop & question as to why no one is going left.
Don’t follow the crowd or multitudes to do things you don’t even understand. The majority isn’t always right, remember.
It’s better to walk alone and be true to yourself that to fit into the crowd and live a fake existence aka an imposter pretending to be someone else.
8. When you free yourself from the chains and shackles of what other people think, you become free as an Eagle ready to soar to heights you were meant to reach. Trialsandtests.
Indeed, the moment you stop worrying about what other people think and start embracing your uniqueness, this is when you start truly living and become free to fly like an Eagle.
Releasing yourself from the shackles of other people’s perceptions of you is indeed very freeing and opens up space for wonderful things and Divine blessings to happen in your life.
You will definitely won’t fulfill your purpose or reach heights in life you were meant to reach if you are imprisoned by other people’s perceptions of you.
So many people have failed to pursue their dreams in life all for the fear of the word no or the fear of being judged and criticized for their decisions by others.
But I say unto you that throw that nonsense behind you and start embracing who you are and when you do that, there are wonderful things waiting for you right ahead for you to discover.
9. At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all. Ann Landers.
The quote above is one of the strong reasons you should care or mind what others think of you or your life decisions you make.
As you age, you begin to realize that everyone is too busy with their own lives and issues to even think about you for a second.
Over time, you realize to your dismay that no one has been even thinking about you all along or your welfare at and that it was just a grand illusion you created in your mind that everyone is interested in our actions or life issues.
You soon come to understand that people simply don’t care and are indifferent to your needs and why should they when they are preoccupied with their own.
So, starting from today, you need to divorce what others think of you because no one cares anyway about whether you are happy or miserable and marry the real you instead.
10. The minute you start caring about what other people think is the minute you stop being yourself. Meryl Streep.
What an amazing quote by Meryl which tells us that the moment you start caring what other people think about you is the moment you stop being yourself.
Instead, you will now start wearing a fake mask to please others or to fit into their dogmas or fictitious opinions & perceptions of you.
This is indeed the mother of all tragedies I have witnessed in my own life because when you stop being yourself, you have essentially sold your birthright.
Your uniqueness is one of your greatest power and divine blessings bestowed on you from above which you shouldn’t give up for anything or anyone no matter who it is.
If the people you are around with can no longer accept you as you are or grow with you, then it means you are in the wrong company dear or that their part in your life is officially over.
Don’t ever dim your glorious shining light of your uniqueness to fit in with others. People who are really meant to be with you will never hold you back from the life you truly want to live.
11. Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life and don’t be trapped by dogma which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. Steve Jobs.
Of all the quotes about not caring what others think about you, this is my favorite of all times which was spoken by Steve Jobs at Stanford University in 2005 when he was diagnosed with cancer.
Indeed, very often, we try to live the life of someone else and forget to live our own lives which will live a long last impact on other people.
Steve Jobs also admonishes us in his quote that we shouldn’t allow other people’s convoluted opinions to drown out what our inner voice is trying to tell us.
Additionally, we shouldn’t allow the dogmas of other people’s views on life and success lead us astray from what our inner voice is telling us to do.
We should always have the courage to follow our hearts with divine guidance from above to do what we want to do regardless of how it may be perceived by others.
Everything else in life is secondary to living your purpose and true calling in life. So, don’t waste your life living someone else’s.
12. If Jesus even though being perfect wasn’t able to please everyone in his time, you too as an imperfect human can’t please everyone in life and no matter how good & kind you are, there will always be someone out there who will not like you for no reason. Trialsandtests.
No matter how good or kind-hearted you are, there will always be someone from the bush who will not like you for no apparent reason in this fallen world we live in.
Tring to do things to impress others is simply just a waste of time which you should redirect elsewhere as you can’t please everyone.
Just as Jesus didn’t manage to please everyone though he was the most perfect and loving person who has ever walked the surface of this planet, we too can never please everyone in life no matter how good we are.
But the good news is that you don’t have to as you were not put here on earth to impress anyone for that matter but to fulfill your purpose that only you & no one else can fulfill.
So, I endeavor you to get out of the people-pleaser trap and ditch trying to impress others who don’t even care about you by the way.
13. So long as you are still worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself. Neale Donald Walsh.
If you always worry and obsess about what others think of you or being approved by them, those people you want to please will always own you even if you don’t realize it.
You will always be a slave to their dictates and subjective preferences or the things they want you to see rather than the things you truly want to see yourself.
Only if you stop depending on the approval of others will you own yourself, become free and truly start living the life you truly want to live from the depth of your heart.
Don’t rely or depend on the approval of others to feel better about yourself or dictate what’s best for you in life as only you can determine that.
By the way, you don’t need anyone’s approval outside yourself or Heaven to soar and live the life you were destined to live as long as what you are doing isn’t evil, self-centered or sinful.
14. Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. Albert Einstein.
Anyone who has done something great worth of admiration in life faced criticisms and oppositions from hater and naysayers who have small & mediocre minds.
Therefore, when you find yourself being criticized for want ting to be great or getting outside your comfort zone, just remember that every great person who has ever lived on earth faced the same obstacles as you.
So, don’t be intimidated by the negativity haters, naysays and jealous people direct towards you which just highlights their own limitations or insecurities in their lives.
It’s these insecurities and limitations they have which they try to project towards you. Just because they failed to achieve their dreams in life doesn’t’ mean you can’t.
Bottom line, never allow jealous and insecure people who gave up on their dreams to convince you to give up on yours.
15. God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. William Shakespeare.
Don’t be the person you pretend to be and always be when the person you truly are without any apologies. Always aspire to be different and unique.
So many people in society nowadays wear masks to fit in with the crowd and at what cost. Very often, we try to be someone else instead of embracing our own uniqueness.
This is reflected in the way we live, our lifestyle the way we dress, political association and the jobs we take. Everyone wants to be like their neighbor these days.
As the saying goes, its better and more blessed to be hated for who you truly are than to be loved for what you are not i.e. an imposter who pretends to be someone else.
In closing always be you as God gave you only one face and there is no other person or a clone like you which is wonderful indeed as you are fearfully, uniquely and wonderfully made.
Well, that’s all the top 15 quotes about not caring what others think about you I had to share with you in this post.
And I know these quotes will help you start living authentically starting from today and as a reminder, don’t ever strive to please anyone in this life and always remember to be you.
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